Comments on: On the Lack of Babies, Caffeine and Why My Husband is Super Awesome http://snarke.net/2010/07/23/on-the-lack-of-babies-caffeine-and-why-my-husband-is-super-awesome/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=on-the-lack-of-babies-caffeine-and-why-my-husband-is-super-awesome the cellulite has landed Fri, 11 May 2012 00:47:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Natalie http://snarke.net/2010/07/23/on-the-lack-of-babies-caffeine-and-why-my-husband-is-super-awesome/comment-page-1/#comment-14908 Natalie Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:44:04 +0000 http://snarke.net/?p=1084#comment-14908 To quote one of my favorite writers: "when the heart is ready, the teacher will come." And if you try to do anything before you are ready, it will be a struggle and likely feel like a failed enterprise. If you allow yourself the tiniest of leeway - a one "cheat" a day, available but not necessary - you will likely conquer caffeine's hold on you. And don't beat yourself up if you need to take that "cheat" - you didn't learn to ride by yanking off your training wheels on the first day, but you don't need them anymore. :) To quote one of my favorite writers: “when the heart is ready, the teacher will come.”

And if you try to do anything before you are ready, it will be a struggle and likely feel like a failed enterprise.

If you allow yourself the tiniest of leeway – a one “cheat” a day, available but not necessary – you will likely conquer caffeine’s hold on you. And don’t beat yourself up if you need to take that “cheat” – you didn’t learn to ride by yanking off your training wheels on the first day, but you don’t need them anymore. :)

]]> By: CoffeeJitters (Judy Haley) http://snarke.net/2010/07/23/on-the-lack-of-babies-caffeine-and-why-my-husband-is-super-awesome/comment-page-1/#comment-14508 CoffeeJitters (Judy Haley) Sat, 24 Jul 2010 06:30:56 +0000 http://snarke.net/?p=1084#comment-14508 this needs to be included word for word in the how to be a good husband manual that guys should be getting with their vows “you need to do what feels best for you right now. Don’t worry about the long term, that will take care of itself. Do what you need to do right now and no matter what you choose I’ll support you and be your cheerleader because I love you.” You've got a good man. Hugs to you on a tough day. this needs to be included word for word in the how to be a good husband manual that guys should be getting with their vows “you need to do what feels best for you right now. Don’t worry about the long term, that will take care of itself. Do what you need to do right now and no matter what you choose I’ll support you and be your cheerleader because I love you.”

You’ve got a good man. Hugs to you on a tough day.

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]]> By: Beth http://snarke.net/2010/07/23/on-the-lack-of-babies-caffeine-and-why-my-husband-is-super-awesome/comment-page-1/#comment-14499 Beth Sat, 24 Jul 2010 01:53:53 +0000 http://snarke.net/?p=1084#comment-14499 I've been there with the "nature is a bitch" thing and every once in a while, for no reason, I get this overwhelming rush of grief over my lost little one. Thanks for sharing your experience and I'm so sorry. It sounds like you have a fantastic husband! You should buy him pompoms for Christmas :) I’ve been there with the “nature is a bitch” thing and every once in a while, for no reason, I get this overwhelming rush of grief over my lost little one. Thanks for sharing your experience and I’m so sorry.

It sounds like you have a fantastic husband! You should buy him pompoms for Christmas :)

]]> By: Britt http://snarke.net/2010/07/23/on-the-lack-of-babies-caffeine-and-why-my-husband-is-super-awesome/comment-page-1/#comment-14491 Britt Sat, 24 Jul 2010 00:27:13 +0000 http://snarke.net/?p=1084#comment-14491 Hugs to you on a rough day. Don't beat yourself up with the caffeine! Hugs to you on a rough day. Don’t beat yourself up with the caffeine!

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