If you are ever in the Portland Metro area, you must have dinner at the Black Bear Diner in Beaverton. Will and I took his sister there for dinner tonight and it. was. so. good.
The other fun part of the diner (besides the yummy food) is that the outside of their menu is designed to look like a newspaper from 1959. You always hear about how much the prices have gone up but when you see a classified ad selling a 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom home with a yard, garage, family room and den for $16,000? You almost fall out of your chair. New cars for $2000? Jeebus. It almost makes me want to live back then, but then I realized that I'd officially be considered "bad" because I'm living with my fiance before we are married.
When I mentioned this, Will said "it's still frowned upon you know," and Missy (Will's sister) and I looked at each other and almost at the same time said "I don't know anyone who didn't live together first!" and "Now its weird not to live together before you get married!" Poor Will. I think he really does want to live back in 1959.
I felt it was my duty to remind him that in 1959 he wouldn't be able to play WoW or spend so much time on the computer because…wait for it…there weren't any personal computers back then! Will insists that he would love to work outdoors and has this romantic idea about being a farmer but whenever I suggest we do anything that doesn't involve climate control, he gets twitchy and says he'd rather stay home. I say that the man who thinks walking a few blocks to the store instead of driving is "weird and un-American" would have a pretty hard time being a real farmer. But because I want to be a good fiancee, I simply patted his knee and said "of course you'd rather work the land honey. I totally understand," while rolling my eyes at his sister.
You know, 'cause I'm supportive and stuff.









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Isn’t it like required that you live together now before marriage?! I certainly thought so. It should be! A trial run of sorts. : )
OMG, I cannot see my husband being a farmer. Hell to the no.
By Smilf on 07.14.08 12:00 am | Permalink
I forget that there is a bit of a generation gap in terms of attitude about premarital cohabitation. I freely talk about living with Torsten at work and every now and then I get an odd glance from one of my older coworkers. But I’m not ashamed–if I were, I wouldn’t be doing it!
By Jess on 07.14.08 12:00 am | Permalink
Won’t it be great if we could have our cake and eat it too. At times I think our generation is just too complicated and I long for simplicity. But then I remember computers, and womens rights and freedom of choices and civil rights and the list goes on.
By Abbie on 07.15.08 12:00 am | Permalink
Smif: It should be!! Think of the problems it would solve
Jess: For me it is odd that there are still people who find living together so “bad.” Men are going to get the milk for free one way or the other, right?
Abbie: You definitely have a point!
By Erin on 07.16.08 12:00 am | Permalink
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